Showing posts with label introvert vs extrovert. Show all posts
Showing posts with label introvert vs extrovert. Show all posts

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Booking Through Thursday: Introverts vs. Extroverts (and writing)



This week's Booking Through Thursday question is:

Do you consider yourself an extrovert or an introvert?



I worked in the corporate world for 15 years. In that time, it wasn't uncommon to have those team building exercises where we'd all take tests to see if we were introverts or extroverts. Some even told us what color we were.

At first, I liked these tests because they validated some of the introvert/extrovert ideas I'd always harbored. They revealed that then, as now, I am a bonafide introvert.

But this is a great paradox for a writer.

We wordsmiths spend loads of time alone with our own thoughts. We get very personal on the page, exposing ourselves in a very extroverted act. A writer can't escape the fact that his life experiences are exploited for the sake of a a story. Add to that, a writer NEEDS to be out in the world, always observing human nature, always hearing the variety of voices, always collecting bits of life. Hemingway said it best:

"In order to write about life, first you must LIVE it!" 


So are writers true introverts? 

I have to wonder if a writer occupies that space on the spectrum squarely between the realms of introvert and extrovert. Between anti-social and social butterfly. Between, "Oh, I'm so embarrassed, I feel awkward and want to hide and stay home with a good book. There's no possible way I can attend your party" and "Oh, please read the words in my book, let me know I haven't toiled in vain. Adore me and invite me to come up on stage at your party!"

That's where I think I am anyway.


What do you think? Are artists inherently a mix of both?